By Brady Hill
Some people might call it an unfair advantage, but getting a love horoscope does have significant advantages. After all, when it comes to your relationship why shouldn't you have an advantage? If the people around you with rocky relationships want to stay that way... let them! There's nothing that says they can't watch and wonder at your ever-improving relationship and be miserable at the same time!
A love horoscope will give you the advantage of a much deeper understanding -- not only of yourself, but of your partner as well. It is amazing how many people in relationships don't really understand each other. Of course if you don't even understand yourself you can't expect to be able to understand someone else.
Case in point: What are your main motivations? Is it security, money, power, prestige? I don't mean to suggest that any of these are wrong, but if you can't answer this question, then your actions won't make any sense... especially to your partner. Motivations define actions. A love horoscope will help both you and your partner understand your respective motivations.
A good love horoscope can lead to a far deeper relationship. It does this by revealing not just your positive aspects, but your negative ones as well. As unpleasant as it is to admit, we all have negative aspects; it's just a fact. The only way to get rid of our negative traits is to attack them head on, and you can't do this if you don't know what they are.
Here's an example: Suppose you have a jealousy problem. The obvious question to ask is why? Did you know that jealousy stems from a deep, and generally hidden fear of losing the one you love? So it's really based on fear -- which manifests itself as irrational jealousy. Cool huh? You could have learned this from a love horoscope but I just thought I'd give you a free sample!
Deeper Sense of Security
Everybody wants to feel secure in his or her relationship. But if you really don't understand why your partner acts a certain way, you can never feel very secure. It's always a guessing game. This is no good. No matter what your job is, no matter how comfortable your home is, or how much money you have, if you don't feel secure in your relationship, nothing else matters.
As an example, let's say your significant other comes home in a less-than-pleasant mood. If your relationship is insecure you never know if that mood is stemming from something within the relationship or from without. This can only lead to more feelings of insecurity. And round and round you go in a never-ending cycle of insecurity. Love horoscopes can work wonders in helping to eliminate those problematic security issues. Everybody needs to feel secure, and if I may be so bold, they deserve it!
The ultimate advantage you can gain from a love horoscope is a relationship that is constantly growing. Any relationship that isn't growing is dying. None of us are perfect, there's always room to grow. A love horoscope helps us to see the areas where we need to focus our attention. When we know what needs attention we are able to target our energies in that direction and make the desired improvements.
So take advantage of the advantages of getting a quality love horoscope. You will benefit from it, your partner will benefit from it, and your relationship will benefit from it. If that's not an advantage I don't know what is!